To love or to die...

Hello there...

So I'm back. I've been quite busy a few days back. I got in-house examination. So, i spend of my time with all my notes and my books. It's quite a short battle because we only had 4 papers and all is done in 2 days.

Personally, i am very disappointed with myself. I did not spend enough time revising all the modules that i learned and consequently 'failing' me during the exams. I am sad because i know that i could do much better than what i've done.

Anyway, a pass is a pass. We could never return back to the time when we make mistakes.

Em... the topic this time is quite hard to handle. It's about LOVE.

LOVE...

There is no discrete meaning of the word 'love'. I have never try to Google the word 'love' before but i bet you want to do it. Try type "define: love" using Google. See what you can get.

Love is a very powerful force. For you to understand (or actually to experience) love you need to have the guts to love other people.

Some people are to afraid to love others. You might deny this statement but deep inside your heart, there is still a piece of love that you have not share or give to other people.

Why?

Because this people are afraid of giving love to others and to accept love from others. We are more concern about ourselves than to concern of living as part of the world. People who are afraid of love actually have the perception that, once they give love to other people they are very afraid that they might lost it.

I'll tell you now... No, there is no such thing of loosing love. God give us abundant love for us to share with other people. It's to abundant actually that we have very BIG heart. That's why people say, "People who are happy have a BIG heart". Happiness is one kind of ways to show love to other people. Have you ever think, when you meet people who are happy, you feel better, especially when you are in bad situation.

God create a heart in each and everyone of us... It is the biggest space for Him to provide love toward us. It's is so vast and huge that there is no one can see the end to love other people. LOVE is a gift from God and it is a gift to be given to other people (and not to be kept to yourself).

No one is born into this world without a heart. Without love.

Everyone has LOVE. The only question now is, are you willing to give your love to other people.

Love here is not limited to boy-and-girl's love... But it is more than that.

Back to the statement that i mentioned before: some people are afraid of giving their love to other people. Love is not like flower... Beautiful but once given to other people, you don't have it anymore. NO... Love is like the SEEDS of flower. The more you give LOVE, the more LOVE you have. It's proliferating. Just like the seeds of flower. You give seeds of flower to other people and people grows them and once the flowers are big enough, it will produce more flower's seeds. It is the same with love. The more you sow them, the more you will reap.

You will never loose LOVE. Even when you love someone, and you loose the person, you will never loose love. It is nonsense when people say "I'll give back all the love that you gave to me" when they are breaking apart. Isn't the statement itself is wrong. There is no way you can give back all the love that people give to you. If you are able to give back the love, that's mean you are able to love that person back... ( to give love is to love).

Some people might be afraid to love other people because they are afraid to be hurt. Love doesn't hurt anybody. There is disappointment when your love is failed by others but love will eventually heal your hurted soul if you are willing to give your love back.

Think of this analogy:

2 wrestlers are fighting... but there seems to be no end to this fight.
And then a son ask his father,"Dad, this fight seems to be no winner. What do you think dad?"
"Son, there will be a winner".
"Who?"
"Love. Love always win."

Love always win. Even when the struggles seem to be no end, but LOVE will always win.
There are so much love that we will never lack of it.

Think of your dad, mom, brothers and sisters...
Think about people that you love and you had love before...
Please, give them love for there should not be a reason for you not to give love.

With all the love of the world.

(To be continued)

3 comments:

  1. "give them love for there should not be a reason for you not to give love"

    i personally think that some ppl, they just dont know how to express how they feel. not that they dont love but shy to tell. even to parents & friends.

    afraid to love others normally bcoz afraid to loose one at the end :( i still believe in that. haish.

    btw, tu la. me too. hopefully final turns out fine.

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  2. Aku nak quote this:
    "i personally think that some ppl, they just dont know how to express how they feel. not that they dont love but shy to tell. even to parents & friends."

    Nana, everyone actually know how to express LOVE. But they don't believe that they can do it. They are to afraid to do so because they are afraid to do so.

    Think of this statement: "Shy is a sign of fear."

    xpe nana... I will post up with new stuffs about LOVE later on when the time come ok...

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  3. i don't know when i am going to post a new stuff bcoz i am quite busy rite now...

    sori.

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